Dr. G - " I got an offer to play in another band from my entire evenings performance."
There can be some real spin-offs from these.
One night in Germany, the weather was horrid and the streets snowy, icy and bare. Locals knew better about going out in this weather. I wasn't going to go to a jam session, but, actually an hour after t had begun, I decided, "what the hell".
I went, the stage was sparer than usual, meaning more playing time. A critic from the paper was there that night and I was surprised the next day to read a really good story, singling out me and my playing. That exposure unexpectedly paid off in many ways.
It's great for networking, but has benefits to all sort of players, like getting experience playing for audiences or playing with people you don't usually play with. Or playing music you might not usually play. And, now that I think of it, even, maybe, having to deal with some awkward or negative aspects, as well.