@ROWUK said in PLEASE KEEP CIVIL!:
… it is a question if everyone posts thoughtfully . .
Amen to that. I was following a post on another forum. For all intents and purposes, the question was answered in the very next post. Yet this went on for three pages, with redundancy and got further detailed and esoteric, sometimes with a post that is three inches long. What the heck is behind that?
The discussion here in this thread is exemplary of something far different. No one asked why escalation occurred - “Keep it Civil” is just a bandaid - a lame attempt to keep an infection from spreading. I would insist that a band aid on top of a festering wound is not the best solution - although for a while, out of sight is out of mind. We may need some time until a diagnosis is possible, but I do not see the questions even being asked.
I don't think there's a need to overqualify this word. Every body here knows that "civil " means. It's just a matter of how far someone wants to push it.
Example:
My definition of “ignorant” is not an insult, rather a description of someone that chooses to IGNORE the truth.
You're playing with words, Robin. Regardless of how you receive the word "ignorant", it was not something benign and up to various interpretation. The poster of that clearly meant that as an insult, as if he were talking to a person who didn't have a clue.