Wow, what a mess! I have a few thoughts about this
- The rights of every individual need to be balanced. Our legal system provides that every person is "innocent" until proven guilty. I agree that, culturally, sometimes the opposite occurs. However, sexual abuse seems to be rampant to begin with, another big problem.
- We really need to strive to be "beyond reproach" in our professional lives. I would have a difficult time even flirting with someone I work with (I am single, at the moment). You cannot be too cautious in this world of ours.
- If I had gotten embroiled in this mess, and knew that I was innocent, I would quit, leave the state, find a farm in the country and want nothing to do with my former employer and life. But that's just me...
- I am NOT advocating that sexual misconduct of any kind is acceptable, please do not read that.